Forgiveness

Forgiveness is not about forgetting. 

It is about letting go of another person's throat.

Forgiveness does not create a relationship. 

Unless people speak the truth about what they have done and change their mind and behavior, a relationship of trust is not possible. 

When you forgive someone, you certainly release them from judgment, but without true change, no real relationship can be established.

Forgiveness in no way requires that you trust the one you forgive. 

But should they finally confess and repent, you will discover a miracle in your own heart that allows you to reach out and begin to build between you a bridge of reconciliation.

Forgiveness does not excuse anything.

You may have to declare your forgiveness a hundred times the first day and the second day, but the third day will be less and each day after, until one day you will realize that you have forgiven completely. 

And then one day you will pray for his wholeness.” 

― William Paul Young, The Shack

Clinomania

~ a lazy ass person that stays in bed all the time and has an obsession with their bed.

Do you have Clinomania or Are you a Clinomaniac?

I love to sleep. Its practically my favorite thing in the world.

But unfortunately, because of the demands for me from work, business and home, 

it seems that my affair with bed was lessen...  

I wanted to master the act of sleeping or just hang around with my bed longer...

12 Ways to hurt your brain

I was flipping through an old newspaper to find interesting article and found an article about brain health.

I think it's worth sharing this info.

Here's the list.

1. Not taking breakfast.
2. Eating too much.
4. Smoking.
5. Not exercising.
6. Taking to much sugar.
7. Breath polluted air.
8. Not enough sleep.
9. Sleeping with covered head.
10. Asking your brain to work while you sick.
11. Did not thinking.
12. Talking rarely.

From A Friend

It doesn't matter what other people think or say. I don't live to please
them. What matters is, I've made the most of what I have, I had fun, I learned
from what I've done and I've lived through it all despite the gossips and
intrigues. That's being real. Just live a life fearless of other people's
shadow...

This one is awesome.. These are the words that I've been looking for.. It suits me..

as i've read this phrase from a friend, Pranswa, it hits my innerself. and then I realized how much of my time Im wasting and had wasted. I lost myself. I never knew my own temple.As if I was been kidnapped and had erase my memories.

But now, Im back, trying to soar and fill the spaces and loses I had in the past. They are memories.. but they are stain in my life.

CURSED???

Im so mad.. am furious... am horrified..
It feels like I wanna explode...
I just wanted to love and be love in return.
To be happy, to be really happy...
But why is it always in me..
The curse..
Am i cursed? am i a jinx?
Why is it me that is always flooded with problems..
Hypocrites surrounds me..
They are dragging me down...
I know I am strong... But why do I feel weak..
This set-up confuses me. and definetly tearing me apart..
I want to let the bitch find the bitch in me and
then its time for payback..

am hurt.. i dont wanna be lonely...

this kills me

why is it hard to be happy when you're inlove?
I worry, I do cry, I envy others.
I give everything yet it isnt enough.
Is it like this when you love someone?
or just stupid to fall for someone who cant see my worth?


-a quote from mae..

am busted.. wasted... why it is always like this...
am hurt.. full of burdens... and its killing me...

Tough Day

Others question my reasoning, but they just dont see the inventiveness behind my logic...
or the logic behind my inventiveness. For that matter, my wackiness is attractive..


I got an argue with someone this morning.. My reasonings are misunderstood.. but i accept that fact, i could always be misunderstood. Because of my wordings, my thoughts and wacky perceptions...

damn stupidity

Why cant we get over lovin'someone who had hurt us badly??
... coz we still hold on to memories and happy thoughts even wishing to put it all back...
... we act so stupid by thinking that one day the person we used to love will return...
... we make ourselves dumb by reminiscing the moments shared with that person...
... we're closing the possibilities that we could be happy with other people
...we are so damn blinded by love that we were made to believe that it wont work out with anybody else.. but only with the one who hurt us.


------from my friend Mae Bico

Stabbed me but You've Failed

"Like an assasin you stab me with the most dramatic ending to my so-called fairy tale and leaving me sucking a huge plastic ball slowly down my throat.. I sulk in despair like the pathetic psychopath you all feed me to believe i am. but in the end?.. i still and always win. you love me. this i know"



~~~means even how hard you put me down, you will never get the chance to bring me down.. even you've tried to betray and ruin me, you cant see me break down and fall.. Im not that strong inside but i can hold on to my beliefs and pride... dont deceived me cause i might be misunderstood. am not who you think i am. so dont pretend you know everything...

Its not what you think...

Sometimes the most important thing that we get from a relationship is not the guarantee of permanence but the lesson that we learn from it when it fails.

Its not how much love we've received but how much love we've given,
Its not how many tears we've shed but how much laughter we've shared,
Its not how many times we were accepted but how many times we've understand when we were rejected.

In the end its not always how much hapiness we had because of love but how much love we've given, that made others happy.

Ive learned..Now its ur turn

Ive learned....

-that you cannot make someone love you.All you can do is be someone who can be loved.The rest is up to them.

-that no matter how much I care, some people just don’t care back.

-that it takes years to build up trust, and only seconds to destroy it.

-that it’s not what you have in your life but who you have in your life that counts.

-that you can get by on charm for about fifteen minutes. After that, you’d better know something.

-that you shouldn’t compare yourself to the best others can do.

-that you can do something in an instant that will give you heartache for life.

-that it’s taking me a long time to become the person I want to be.

-that you should always leave loved ones with loving words. It may be the last time you see them..

-that you can keep going long after you can’t.

-that we are responsible for what we do, no matter how we feel.

-that either you control your attitude or it controls you.

-that regardless of how hot and steamy a relationship is at first, the passion fades and there had better be
something else to take its place.

-that heroes are the people who do what has to be done when it needs to be done, regardless of the consequences.

-that money is a lousy way of keeping score..

-that my best friend and I can do anything or nothing and have the best time.

-that sometimes the people you expect to kick you when you’re down will be the ones to help you get back up.

-that sometimes when I’m angry I have the right to be angry, but that doesn’t give me the right to be cruel.

-that true friendship continues to grow, even over the longest distance. Same goes for true love.

-that just because someone doesn’t love you the way you want them to doesn’t mean they don’t love you with all they have.

-that maturity has more to do with what types of experiences you’ve had and what you’ve learned from them
and less to do with how many birthdays you’ve celebrated.

-that you should never tell a child their dreams are unlikely or outlandish. Few things are more humiliating, and what a tragedy it would be if they believed it.

-that your family won’t always be there for you. It may seem funny, but people you aren’t related to can take care of you and love you and teach you to trust people again. Families aren’t biological.

-that no matter how good a friend is, they’re going to hurt you every once in a while and you must forgive them for that.

-that it isn’t always enough to be forgiven by others. Sometimes you have to learn to forgive yourself.

-that no matter how bad your heart is broken the world doesn’t stop for your grief.

-that our background and circumstances may have influenced who we are, but we are responsible for who we become.

-that just because two people argue, it doesn’t mean they don’t love each other. And just because they don’t argue, it doesn’t mean they do.

-that we don’t have to change friends if we understand that friends change.

-that you shouldn’t be so eager to find out a secret. It could change your life forever.

-that two people can look at the exact same thing and see something totally different.

-that no matter how you try to protect your children, they will eventually get hurt and you will hurt in the process.

-that your life can be changed in a matter of hours by people who don’t even know you.

-that even when you think you have no more to give, when a friend cries out to you, you will find the strength to help.

-that credentials on the wall do not make you a decent human being.

-that the people you care about most in life are taken from you too soon.

-that it’s hard to determine where to draw the line between being nice and not hurting people’s feelings and
standing up for what you believe.

---- i've learned that.. now its your time to learn these...Its a good thing that i've found these things, it made me glad, and realize things that i need to know...thanks to the source....

My Sadness..It kills me...

why I am sad... this is a feeling i couldnt resist..
it seems like its eating me...
and am getting weaker and weaker and weaker....

SADNESS

Sadness is a feeling - it's one of the many normal human emotions, or moods, we all have. Sadness is the emotion people feel when they've lost something important, or when they have been disappointed about something, or when something sad has happened to them or to someone else. When they're lonely, people often feel sad.
When you're sad, the world may seem dark and unfriendly. You might feel like you have nothing to look forward to. The hurt deep inside may crush your usually good mood.
Sadness makes you feel like crying, and sometimes the tears are hard to stop. Crying often makes you feel better.
Sometimes when your mood is sad, you just feel like being alone for a little while. Or you might want someone to comfort you or just keep you company while you go through the sad feeling. Talking about what has made you sad usually helps the sad feeling melt away.
When sadness starts to go away, it can feel like a heavy blanket is being lifted from your shoulders.

Confused and Stress

Am i so mean??? Am i that bad??? I love him but why am i sacrificing.. I know he was also hurt but I am also hurt. I dunno whats happenin to me.. I turned weird.. Sometimes am irratated...sometimes am not...Maybe Im just stress..I know my mistakes... I hope we could settle things up.. Am looking forward to talk... I will wait if I have to.. No matter how long... Basta maghihintay ako.. i will wait until its ok and the other side is ready to talk.. I dont want to hang up like this,. its so sudden and i couldnt imagine that am hangin like this here... It is hard... Am not mean.. Im just stress out and want to be distress... I dont want to have arguments.. Arguments are my weakness... Ill just hold in one thought.."If we are really made for each other, and then maybe even how rough the path we are going to take, We can still meet at the end TOGETHER..."

I Love him......
hope it is the same feeling he had in him...

another choices...

Choices...
What to eat?
What movie to watch?
Where to go?
Easy right???
But if the choices to make where, whom to give yourself to, its difficult!
Would you choose security or hapiness?
Security doesnt guarantee happiness, but hapiness gives security because it gives you reasons to stay, to love, to smile.
Whatever the risk may be, its gonna be worth it..

We need to figure it out on our own. No matter how hard would it be..
We must be contented and be happy of the road we wish to go..
We must be optimistic enough to have choices... and be wise to choose.
For it may be our forever decision and might be a regret in the end...

Be happy ^_^

Dont waste your time regretting all your wrongs. Know that in the end you'll get what your heart longs. Try not to risk it all, dont stumble, dont fall... Hold your head high, dont be afraid to say goodbye. Stay true and be you. Do everything there is to do. Live life to the fullest & never look back. There is a rison for the past. Love till it hurts, laugh till you cry & when your life flashes before you die, be happy for what you've done, be happy for you've overcome and most of all be proud of what you had become.


- this was for my friend Ralph.. 'ope you read this one..